00:00:30:16 00:00:33:13 Five years have passed
since I married Mehdy.
00:00:33:23 00:00:38:00 I love every corner of our
house but I know that I only...
00:00:38:00 00:00:42:04 … married him to get away from
my parents and migrate to Tehran.
00:00:42:28 00:00:47:11 Now when I see my friends
and girls of my age who are…
00:00:47:11 00:00:50:24 … single I wonder why
I married so young.
00:00:51:05 00:00:55:04 Why didn't I experience a
life as a single girl like them?
00:01:01:16 00:01:04:26 Unwelcome in Tehran
00:01:09:08 00:01:12:03 - Hi… how are you?
- How are you?
00:01:13:26 00:01:15:28 Mina, what do
you want to ask?
00:01:15:28 00:01:18:02 What… from the girls?
00:01:18:02 00:01:21:09 Just how long they’ve
lived in Tehran?
00:01:21:09 00:01:23:01 What they are doing?
Are they working…
00:01:23:01 00:01:24:17 …are they students?
00:01:24:17 00:01:26:15 Why have they not returned
to their hometowns?
00:01:26:15 00:01:28:22 Just a couple of questions,
It’s nothing special.
00:01:28:26 00:01:30:25 Write down Maryam
and Akram’s names too.
00:01:30:25 00:01:32:21 Maryam Saberi and Akram.
00:01:32:21 00:01:35:12 - Write down Khadijeh’s name too.
- All right…
00:01:35:19 00:01:37:19 Her friend Hoda too.
00:01:38:02 00:01:39:28 Hoda… what
is Hoda’s major?
00:01:39:28 00:01:42:04 Hoda… she is…
00:01:43:26 00:01:45:04 … either studying development...
00:01:45:04 00:01:46:29 ... or one of these social
sciences majors.
00:01:46:29 00:01:47:28 Where is she from?
00:01:48:20 00:01:51:06 I have no idea… I think
she is from Isfahan.
00:01:51:23 00:01:53:21 All right… does she
live in a dorm here?
00:01:53:21 00:01:56:23 I think so,
but she works…
00:01:56:23 00:01:58:07 … she has her own life…
00:01:58:07 00:02:00:03 … she’s just living in the
dorm because...
00:02:00:03 00:02:01:25 ... they had offered to give
her accommodation.
00:02:04:01 00:02:08:03 OK… one, two, three, four, five,
and six… OK this will do.
00:02:10:02 00:02:13:18 - Hassan is the sound all right?
- It’s all right… let’s begin.
00:02:13:18 00:02:15:04 Recording.
00:02:15:04 00:02:18:11 How long have you
been living in Tehran?
00:02:18:21 00:02:22:11 I came to Tehran in 2005.
00:02:22:11 00:02:25:10 My family live in Mashad.
00:02:25:10 00:02:29:28 I decided to come and live in Tehran
because of the job offer that I had.
00:02:30:03 00:02:33:28 My study was a way of
escaping my hometown…
00:02:33:28 00:02:35:27 I like to live in Tehran.
00:02:35:27 00:02:40:17 When I first Came, I had
an extraordinary feeling…
00:02:40:17 00:02:44:23 … that I had escaped the
watchful eyes of people…
00:02:44:23 00:02:46:20 … it was a
unique sensation.
00:02:46:20 00:02:50:20 There are restrictions, if
you are in a small town…
00:02:50:20 00:02:55:09 … from a cultural point of
view and traditional beliefs…
00:02:55:09 00:03:00:21 … the advantages in my field of
study, obtaining many things…
00:03:00:21 00:03:04:02 … even when you want to get a book
in a small town you will face problems.
00:03:04:08 00:03:07:18 The experience of a single
girl living by herself?
00:03:07:18 00:03:10:11 I don’t know, it is an extraordinary
and unique event…
00:03:10:11 00:03:15:16 … after all these years I still meet
people who are very surprised…
00:03:15:16 00:03:17:12 … they can’t swallow it…
00:03:17:12 00:03:21:02 … lots of people ask me if I’m
not scared sleeping alone at night?
00:03:21:02 00:03:23:06 It has its own problems…
00:03:23:06 00:03:27:14 … but when I go over things in my
mind, which I have done repeatedly…
00:03:27:14 00:03:30:01 … when I go back over the
past few years…
00:03:30:01 00:03:33:26 I really believe that independence
and its positive …
00:03:33:26 00:03:38:07 … sides outweigh the negative
sides and its problems.
00:03:38:07 00:03:42:00 Are you happy with your work and
your living conditions in Tehran?
00:03:42:19 00:03:45:16 Well my living condition
is very difficult…
00:03:45:16 00:03:49:19 … if I had my family’s support things
would have been different …
00:03:49:19 00:03:52:28 … nevertheless I’m very happy…
00:03:52:28 00:03:57:22 … because it is the life that I have
chosen… no-one else is involved.
00:03:57:22 00:04:00:22 My name is Maryam…
my surname is Sheikh…
00:04:00:26 00:04:04:23 I’ve worked hard to become
Maryam Sheikh…
00:04:04:23 00:04:07:00 … and I am not willing
to give it up at any cost.
00:04:11:28 00:04:15:21 I can see it in my family…
00:04:15:21 00:04:19:05 … not only in my family,
among my friends…
00:04:19:05 00:04:23:27 … among my employers, who live
in Tehran with their families…
00:04:23:27 00:04:29:02 … in their conversations…
in their looks…
00:04:29:02 00:04:31:28 … their attitude towards my
way of life…
00:04:31:28 00:04:37:09 … I can easily feel their yearning and that
they wish they could be in my shoes.
00:04:41:09 00:04:42:21 I don’t know…
00:04:45:01 00:04:47:03 - What?
- The watermelon.
00:04:47:03 00:04:48:19 No I don’t want any more.
00:04:48:19 00:04:49:28 Should it be cut better?
00:04:49:28 00:04:52:15 That’s enough Azar dear…
00:04:52:25 00:04:55:22 The girls are here but they’re on a
trip, they’ve gone back home.
00:04:55:22 00:04:59:17 I’m tempted to come and live with
you in the boarding-house.
00:04:59:17 00:05:02:26 Seriously? Azar is leaving.
00:05:04:06 00:05:05:23 Can I take Azar’s place?
00:05:05:23 00:05:07:10 No, Azar is leaving…
00:05:09:12 00:05:11:01 That was a wisecrack?
00:05:11:07 00:05:14:15 The rooftop is a place to walk…
this guy is on the roof 24/7.
00:05:14:24 00:05:18:20 Well he knows there’s a girls’
boarding-house across the street.
00:05:18:20 00:05:20:20 - Have you signed a contract?
- Why…
00:05:21:06 00:05:23:02 I don’t have a contract.
00:05:23:02 00:05:25:06 What do you mean?
How do you seal a contract?
00:05:25:06 00:05:27:12 The contract is for 3 months.
00:05:27:12 00:05:31:07 Then, um… but when I came,
I didn’t sign a contract…
00:05:31:07 00:05:33:07 … and I don’t intend to...
00:05:33:07 00:05:36:10 ... because they said that I had
to sign a 3 month contract…
00:05:36:10 00:05:39:21 … if I do that then I have
to stay for 3 months…
00:05:39:21 00:05:42:15 … I know that I won’t be
staying for 3 months…
00:05:42:15 00:05:43:21 … I want to leave…
00:05:43:21 00:05:46:06 Hmm… how long have
you been staying here?
00:05:46:06 00:05:47:28 Now? 4 months.
00:05:47:28 00:05:50:05 - You’re here for the past 4 months?
- Yep, it’s been 4 months.
00:05:50:05 00:05:53:21 I was here for a year or two,
after I finished my studies…
00:05:53:21 00:05:56:21 … then I went to Sabzehvaar…
because I was unemployed...
00:05:56:21 00:05:59:07 ... I said to myself I might
find a job there.
00:05:59:07 00:06:02:20 Then I decided to work
even at a bank...
00:06:02:20 00:06:04:19 ... such as Melli Bank,
other offices.
00:06:04:29 00:06:08:13 I told them that I was willing
to work for gratis…
00:06:08:13 00:06:12:23 … I thought it would be an experience,
and I would get to know people…
00:06:12:23 00:06:16:28 … they wouldn’t accept me,
one night we were chatting…
00:06:16:28 00:06:21:11 … one of the girls asked why I wouldn’t
become a nurse for the elderly.
00:06:21:11 00:06:25:14 I thought it was beneath
me then I thought no,
00:06:25:14 00:06:28:11 … what would I be doing
working in people’s house.
00:06:28:11 00:06:31:18 I had worked so hard to get
here to end up like this?
00:06:31:18 00:06:34:14 Then I thought to myself,
what’s wrong with that?
00:06:34:14 00:06:37:21 I wouldn’t need to pay rent…
00:06:37:21 00:06:42:09 … and it would be a source
of income for me anyway.
00:06:44:10 00:06:48:01 Because of the way you live,
no-one, Asks for our hand?
00:06:48:01 00:06:50:13 I’m sensitive just like Mina.
00:06:50:13 00:06:54:12 Mrs. Eskandari wants to increase
the rent which she hasn’t…
00:06:54:12 00:06:56:07 … but she’s taking away
the services…
00:06:56:07 00:06:57:12 Increase the rent?
00:06:57:12 00:06:59:29 Yep she wanted to increase
the rent, but hasn’t…
00:06:59:29 00:07:02:14 … She’s just taking away
the amenities.
00:07:03:22 00:07:06:22 The girls said that we
can’t use...
00:07:06:22 00:07:11:06 ... the washing machine or
the vacuum cleaner any more.
00:07:11:07 00:07:13:19 Mehdi has the experience of living
in the dorm for 7 years…
00:07:13:19 00:07:15:13 ... I’ve never had.
00:07:15:13 00:07:18:13 In our married life,
he is very…
00:07:18:13 00:07:20:06 - Yeah, yeah.
- … flexible.
00:07:20:06 00:07:23:05 He puts up with things,
but not me…
00:07:23:05 00:07:27:19 I blow up easily, why is here
like this, why is it like that?
00:07:27:19 00:07:32:01 In the end I have to
clean up a messy house.
00:07:32:01 00:07:35:04 He won’t help me clean up,
unless I start first.
00:07:37:03 00:07:39:00 Do you always eat together?
00:07:39:24 00:07:41:10 Most of the time.
00:07:41:10 00:07:43:05 Look, our gang…
00:07:45:20 00:07:48:12 … if you can call us a gang…
00:07:49:11 00:07:51:19 … we are almost…
kind of in harmony.
00:07:53:13 00:07:54:27 All the trouble you
have to go through…
00:07:54:27 00:07:56:04 Yeah.
00:08:02:04 00:08:04:00 - You’re wearing a chador in this one?
- Yep…
00:08:06:06 00:08:10:08 When I first arrived, I would,
go out in a manteau.
00:08:12:08 00:08:14:16 But for a long time when you
would go to Sabzehvaar…
00:08:14:16 00:08:15:20 ... you wore a chador.
00:08:15:21 00:08:18:10 Yep… but they knew that I
was not wearing a chador.
00:08:18:28 00:08:20:15 Come and thread my face!
00:08:20:16 00:08:23:07 You know I used to wear
a chador at the university…
00:08:23:07 00:08:27:17 … because I had worn it, and
then it was difficult for me.
00:08:27:17 00:08:30:19 I didn’t like to, I remember
at that time…
00:08:30:19 00:08:35:01 I had a… suitor,
a boy from Tehran…
00:08:35:01 00:08:40:01 I was a freshman, the first
thing that I told him was that…
00:08:40:01 00:08:41:23 I hoped that it was not
because...
00:08:41:23 00:08:43:24 ... of the chador that he
asked me to marry him…
00:08:43:24 00:08:45:19 … because I don’t believe
in the chador…
00:08:46:16 00:08:49:14 Our professor "Islami",
you see…
00:08:49:14 00:08:52:22 … I didn’t wear chador
out of choice.
00:08:53:11 00:08:55:15 Chador was a covering
for your head… right?
00:08:55:15 00:08:56:23 Yeah.
00:08:57:15 00:08:59:20 Do you have a picture
of your parents?
00:08:59:26 00:09:02:12 I had one but I tore it up,
this one…
00:09:03:19 00:09:04:14 Why?
00:09:05:06 00:09:08:14 I had two names, my
father named me Azar…
00:09:08:14 00:09:10:14 … my grandfather said that I
should be called Khatoon...
00:09:10:14 00:09:11:20 ... what sort of a name
is Azar?
00:09:12:14 00:09:14:21 Then I… wanted to
go to the university…
00:09:14:21 00:09:17:13 … I said that I didn’t want
to be called Khatoon.
00:09:20:14 00:09:23:00 Then you changed your name
to Azar in your ID card?
00:09:23:00 00:09:26:24 Yep… I changed my name before
I got my high school diploma.
00:10:15:01 00:10:16:17 Thank you.
00:10:17:29 00:10:19:16 Who are you serving?
00:10:19:16 00:10:22:18 I’m serving you all, you can
select, whatever you want.
00:10:22:18 00:10:25:03 When I was in my
3rd year of studies…
00:10:25:03 00:10:28:11 … my mother and my brother
told me...
00:10:28:11 00:10:30:17 ... that they wouldn’t allow
me to go…
00:10:30:17 00:10:33:04 … they easily threatened me.
00:10:33:04 00:10:34:18 Was it during the summer
holidays that...
00:10:34:18 00:10:36:05 ... you were back home
or another time?
00:10:36:21 00:10:38:10 It was between two semesters.
00:10:38:10 00:10:40:19 I can’t remember exactly whether
it was during summer...
00:10:40:19 00:10:41:26 - ... or between semesters.
- Where did you live?
00:10:42:00 00:10:43:08 In Sabzehvaar.
00:10:43:21 00:10:46:04 They wouldn’t allow
me to go back…
00:10:46:04 00:10:50:23 … I quietly packed my suitcase
and sneaked out.
00:10:50:23 00:10:52:21 In the morning when
they were asleep…
00:10:52:21 00:10:58:24 … I left them a letter telling them
that I know what I want in life…
00:10:58:24 00:11:01:20 … and that they
couldn’t decide for me…
00:11:01:24 00:11:04:21 What did they do then?
What happened next?
00:11:04:21 00:11:06:29 They would call me but I wouldn’t
return their calls, for some time…
00:11:06:29 00:11:08:19 So when did you next
meet them?
00:11:08:19 00:11:13:11 This went on for a while
until I saw them…
00:11:13:11 00:11:16:24 … I told them that you forced
me to treat you like that…
00:11:16:24 00:11:21:04 … to leave you
without telling you…
00:11:22:25 00:11:27:12 … well now, they haven’t come
to terms with many things…
00:11:27:12 00:11:30:27 … they still cannot accept
that...
00:11:30:27 00:11:35:23 ... as a 31 year old girl I can
decide for myself…
00:11:35:23 00:11:40:07 … just because I’m female,
they get to decide for me…
00:11:40:07 00:11:43:09 … you know, I still have
a lot of restrictions…
00:11:43:17 00:11:47:19 … when I go back home… I have
a different dress code,
00:11:47:19 00:11:50:00 I have a different manner…
00:11:50:00 00:11:53:11 … my social life in my hometown
is different to what I have here.
00:11:53:11 00:11:55:05 It was very interesting
that I was not...
00:11:55:05 00:11:57:13 ... only involved with
my own family...
00:11:57:15 00:12:00:08 … but with all my relatives…
00:12:00:08 00:12:01:28 It is extended…
00:12:01:28 00:12:04:02 Totally… aunts… uncles…
00:12:04:02 00:12:09:16 … my mother’s side of the
family didn’t interfere much…
00:12:09:16 00:12:13:10 … because their concept was a little
different, but my father’s side…
00:12:13:10 00:12:20:04 … all of them from a 16 year-old
boy to my 60 year-old aunt…
00:12:20:04 00:12:24:28 … to my 70 year-old grandmother…
my other aunt who is 50…
00:12:24:28 00:12:29:22 “Azar gather your belonging,
we’re leaving. ”…“ where to grandma? ”
00:12:29:22 00:12:33:15 She said: “We’re leaving…
what are you doing in this city? ”
00:12:33:22 00:12:35:29 I said: “What do mean? ”
00:12:35:29 00:12:39:00 When I became a student…
00:12:39:14 00:12:45:00 … my family was sensitive to
some issues and indifferent …
00:12:45:00 00:12:50:12 … to things that other families
were concerned about.
00:12:50:12 00:12:52:12 I was surprised…
00:12:52:12 00:12:56:27 … they were sensitive
towards me going out…
00:12:56:27 00:12:58:15 … why I was out every night.
00:12:58:15 00:12:59:22 You dine at a restaurant
every night…
00:12:59:22 00:13:01:13 ... you are out with your
friends every night.
00:13:01:13 00:13:04:11 My family was not really
concerned about this…
00:13:04:11 00:13:08:23 … about something bad
happening to me, you know…
00:13:08:23 00:13:10:28 … their only concern
was that...
00:13:10:28 00:13:13:30 ... what people would say
about their daughter…
00:13:13:30 00:13:15:19 They were worried for themselves.
00:13:15:19 00:13:21:14 They were particularly concerned about
what their response would be…
00:13:21:14 00:13:24:24 … how they would respond
to neighbour’s questions?
00:13:24:24 00:13:28:10 I think another issue is
that in small towns,
00:13:28:10 00:13:31:04 ... the relationships are
face to face…
00:13:31:11 00:13:34:13 … there’s pressure on your family…
00:13:34:13 00:13:39:19 … over leaving and probably
the family...
00:13:39:19 00:13:43:07 ... and friendswho keep asking if
Azar has got married?
00:13:43:08 00:13:46:05 Why hasn’t she? Excuse me,
she must be a tart!
00:13:46:05 00:13:50:03 At that moment when
my mother said…
00:13:50:03 00:13:52:20 I wish that same thing that happened...
00:13:52:20 00:13:54:22 ... to such and such a person’s
daughter would happen …
00:13:54:22 00:13:57:23 … to you so that your body
would be dropped in...
00:13:57:23 00:13:59:28 ... a remote place and they
would bring me your corpse.
00:13:59:28 00:14:02:25 She prayed that such a
thing would...
00:14:02:25 00:14:05:23 ... happen to her own
daughter just like that…
00:14:06:05 00:14:11:18 … I found it difficult, when a person
keeps telling you for years that…
00:14:11:18 00:14:13:22 … they are worried for
you then...
00:14:13:22 00:14:19:25 ... she looks you in the eyes
and tells you such a thing…
00:14:19:25 00:14:26:09 … for me… it happened many times,
it’s very… difficult…
00:14:26:09 00:14:28:01 Yep, it’s very difficult…
00:14:28:01 00:14:31:13 It’s horrible… I can’t imagine.
00:14:32:10 00:14:33:16 In my opinion...
00:14:33:16 00:14:37:05 ... the best blessing that we as
women have is that we can cry.
00:14:38:15 00:14:42:04 You know… if you hear this
from anyone else…
00:14:42:04 00:14:44:07 … it wouldn’t be that hard
on you...
00:14:44:07 00:14:46:22 ... but when you hear it from
your own mother…
00:14:46:22 00:14:50:08 … from your own brother,
really… I mean…
00:14:50:08 00:14:52:23 … it is like being buried
under debris… it means…
00:14:52:23 00:14:56:04 You have nowhere to turn to…
00:15:07:22 00:15:10:02 Where did Mina go? Mina!
00:15:16:12 00:15:20:18 You know, I should have practised
somewhere less crowded…
00:15:20:18 00:15:22:20 ... So that I wouldn’t be scared…
00:15:23:07 00:15:26:15 - It isn’t that crowded…
- It's very crowded
00:16:08:04 00:16:10:12 It is a slope.
00:16:56:29 00:16:58:18 - Hi.
- Hi… welcome…
00:16:58:27 00:17:01:15 Britain added fuel to the
fire and in 1917...
00:17:01:15 00:17:05:07 ... the then foreign minister
convinced Britain to…
00:17:09:04 00:17:11:16 - What age group are you looking for?
- Is it a story?
00:17:11:18 00:17:13:11 Between the age of 3 to 12.
00:17:13:11 00:17:15:04 There… that is a series…
00:17:17:25 00:17:20:09 … for the 10 year-olds…
00:17:20:09 00:17:22:26 - Yeah the Judies…
- It’s 5 volumes.
00:17:38:13 00:17:43:00 A 50 or 60 square meter apartment
without an owner around…
00:17:43:10 00:17:44:28 How much can you
afford for the deposit?
00:17:44:28 00:17:46:19 7 million Tomans up front and
200,000 Tomans for the rent.
00:17:46:19 00:17:50:23 7 million Tomans… 200,000
Tomans… are you employed?
00:17:51:10 00:17:52:04 Yes…
00:17:53:20 00:17:55:23 You are… where do
you work?
00:17:56:06 00:17:59:19 My place of work, it
is somewhere…
00:18:00:04 00:18:02:07 No… this is the condition…
00:18:02:07 00:18:06:05 The landlord must know
where you work? Where…
00:18:06:05 00:18:10:03 Why should he know… where
my place of work is?
00:18:10:03 00:18:14:19 You know… we’ve had
several issues in the past…
00:18:14:19 00:18:15:22 … We have
rented the place...
00:18:15:22 00:18:18:05 ... they were members of the
Gold Quest pyramid company.
00:18:18:05 00:18:21:14 … or had other problems, now
they are not renting their…
00:18:21:14 00:18:25:25 … houses in this neighbourhood…
not until they know who you are…
00:18:25:25 00:18:29:10 … and where you work? Whether
you are a student or not…
00:18:29:10 00:18:31:15 Well I am an employee…
in an office…
00:18:31:15 00:18:33:06 An employee in an office?
00:18:35:22 00:18:39:21 Will any family member of yours
come to sign the contract?
00:18:39:29 00:18:42:20 No… I always sign
my own lease…
00:18:42:20 00:18:45:23 … there’s no need for them to
come, I live my own life…
00:18:46:26 00:18:49:14 Well you mean you will be the
only one to sign the contract?
00:18:49:14 00:18:53:09 Of course it is the lease of my house…
I want to rent a place for myself…
00:18:53:09 00:18:55:06 … I’m not renting it for
my family…
00:18:55:06 00:18:58:04 No, I mean… you don’t
have a family?
00:18:58:19 00:19:02:12 Hmm… they are not here…
I live by myself…
00:19:02:18 00:19:06:12 I mean… any parents…
or…
00:19:07:20 00:19:08:09 No.
00:19:46:25 00:19:52:23 Mehdi… would you get me
that thing… the laptop stand.
00:19:52:23 00:19:54:13 - What?
- The laptop stand.
00:19:55:27 00:19:57:16 - What?
- The laptop stand.
00:19:58:06 00:19:59:27 Aha… the laptop stand…
00:20:13:25 00:20:16:03 Should I save these things
for you that are here?
00:20:16:23 00:20:18:06 Yeah, save them for me…
00:20:18:13 00:20:19:21 Where should I save them?
00:20:20:04 00:20:21:15 What… this?
No… delete it.
00:20:21:15 00:20:23:28 I don’t know, it’s related toarchitecture
and the regulations on sketching…
00:20:23:28 00:20:25:23 You don’t want them? None of
them? Should I shut it down?
00:20:25:23 00:20:27:09 No. I was searching…
00:20:28:08 00:20:31:04 I called this afternoon but
no-one was at the dorm…
00:20:31:08 00:20:33:06 Nobody answered
the phone?
00:20:33:06 00:20:35:12 Yes, someone answered and
said there is no-one in the suite…
00:20:35:24 00:20:37:11 I thought you were out
looking for an apartment…
00:20:37:11 00:20:39:12 I called to set a time to
meet tomorrow…
00:20:39:12 00:20:40:28 ... what time should we be
at the train station?
00:20:40:28 00:20:42:16 What time?
00:20:42:16 00:20:45:05 9 is fine.
00:20:52:05 00:20:57:18 Garmsar… Damghan… Shahrood
00:21:58:29 00:22:00:10 No, no, over there…
over there.
00:22:00:10 00:22:05:04 Come over here, here…
Yousef… my dear…
00:22:05:11 00:22:07:04 We’ll go together later on…
we’ll go later…
00:22:07:14 00:22:11:08 These are the books that
you can read… OK…
00:22:11:08 00:22:14:00 I will lend them to you…
will you read them?
00:22:14:00 00:22:16:15 Do you like to read them?
Yeah? OK…
00:22:16:15 00:22:20:04 … this is the first page…
what does it say?
00:22:21:15 00:22:23:28 Soheil wants to read…
won’t you?
00:22:26:15 00:22:28:14 Yeah, read it and tell
me what you think…
00:22:28:14 00:22:33:16 A bear…a bear…
a bear… a bear…
00:22:33:29 00:22:37:04 A bear… a bear…
what is the story?
00:22:37:26 00:22:39:03 - Bye!
- Bye!
00:23:10:11 00:23:15:10 My plan is to set up a library
here… is there a library here?
00:23:15:10 00:23:16:22 There is… but…
00:23:16:22 00:23:20:28 There aren’t many books, a
few mosques have library…
00:23:20:28 00:23:28:25 … the Basij unit has one, there
aren’t many books, just a few…
00:23:29:15 00:23:32:12 The books of Saheb ol Zaman are
good, they are high level books…
00:23:32:12 00:23:34:09 … we can’t use them…
00:23:34:19 00:23:38:21 Well… I’ll lend you
these books…
00:23:38:21 00:23:42:01 Just pass them on to people
who you think...
00:23:42:01 00:23:48:03 ... would like read them
or not, any way…
00:23:48:06 00:23:49:10 By force… hah?
00:23:49:10 00:23:51:10 No, not by force… no!
00:23:51:10 00:23:54:22 - Nothing will be done through force…
- No, never, do anything… by force…
00:23:54:22 00:23:57:03 Well… when you don’t like
something, then it is by force…
00:23:57:03 00:23:59:21 No, no, give them to the
ones who like reading…
00:23:59:21 00:24:01:20 … and for those who don’t,
just encourage them…
00:24:01:20 00:24:03:22 … they have to choose whether
they want to or not, these books…
00:24:03:22 00:24:05:29 These days nobody can force another
person to do anything by force…
00:24:05:29 00:24:07:28 - Yes they can…
- People can do as they please…
00:24:07:28 00:24:09:25 There is no force involved…
00:24:09:25 00:24:13:04 Reference books for
master degrees.
00:24:14:05 00:24:16:02 You have to study for
your master degree, right?
00:24:16:08 00:24:17:29 I still have another year
to finish my studies…
00:24:17:29 00:24:19:03 Are you in the 7th
semester now?
00:24:19:03 00:24:21:24 - What’s your major?
- Jurisprudence.
00:24:22:08 00:24:24:04 Is it the same major
as yours Somayeh?
00:24:24:04 00:24:26:18 - Yes…
- Yeah? It’s like Sara’s major?
00:24:26:28 00:24:28:01 Is it a good major?
00:24:29:04 00:24:30:21 It’s good as long as you
further your studies…
00:24:31:24 00:24:32:25 Definitely.
00:24:33:07 00:24:36:01 Yeah? Where do you
like to go for that?
00:24:37:18 00:24:39:10 I’d like to go to… Ghom.
00:24:39:10 00:24:43:02 Ghom?
You’d like to go to Ghom?
00:24:44:10 00:24:48:19 Will you be given permission to
go to Ghom if you are admitted?
00:24:48:19 00:24:49:19 I don’t know…
00:24:49:19 00:24:55:27 Aha… Well, when I was admitted at
the university and left, years later…
00:24:56:17 00:24:59:25 I could feel the difference
of attitude in my aunts,
00:24:59:25 00:25:04:22 … uncles, my own family…
my brothers… well…
00:25:05:06 00:25:09:13 May be you expect them to
behave as you like them to, well…
00:25:10:07 00:25:13:12 … they haven’t changed their attitudes…
your expectations have changed…
00:25:13:12 00:25:15:01 No, no, no… it hasn’t…
00:25:15:08 00:25:16:20 No… you have to admit…
00:25:16:20 00:25:20:14 Now… in our family people’s
views have changed?
00:25:21:04 00:25:23:14 Well… some… I’m
not saying everyone…
00:25:23:16 00:25:24:22 - Well that’s it…
- I…
00:25:24:22 00:25:29:00 One should explain to
them… for this reason…
00:25:29:00 00:25:34:26 She has gone to an advanced society…
has changed… it has its effects…
00:25:35:24 00:25:38:25 Well yeah… I’m not saying
everyone… some people…
00:25:38:25 00:25:40:04 One shouldn’t think that if a
person is kept in a space…
00:25:40:04 00:25:43:00 … like locked up inside a room
and asked not to do anything…
00:25:43:00 00:25:46:02 … then obviously that
person will not sin…
00:25:46:02 00:25:49:13 … but if he goes
somewhere and...
00:25:49:13 00:25:50:25 ... doesn’t do anything
then he is to be admired…
00:25:51:08 00:25:53:04 … not to say a person kept
locked up...
00:25:53:04 00:25:54:24 ... is a saint and incapable
of committing a sin.
00:25:54:24 00:25:58:12 People just want you to wear
a chador… that’s enough…
00:25:58:23 00:26:01:27 It shouldn’t be like this… our
Islam says that we shouldn’t lie…
00:26:01:27 00:26:03:19 … we shouldn’t accuse…
we shouldn’t backbite…
00:26:03:19 00:26:08:28 Every person has their
own specific goal…
00:26:08:28 00:26:12:02 … my goal and yours could
be totally different…
00:26:12:02 00:26:18:06 … or with these two ladies…
we all try in our own way…
00:26:18:19 00:26:22:22 I try… whether I will
reach my goal or not…
00:26:22:28 00:26:25:29 Would you like to get
married now? Work now?
00:26:25:29 00:26:28:25 Well no, look…
Marriage is not a goal…
00:26:29:25 00:26:33:22 … my goal is to have
a life so that God willing…
00:26:33:22 00:26:38:07 … my life on the other side would
be better, people are different…
00:26:38:07 00:26:41:15 When you have Islamic beliefs,
marriage is half your faith…
00:26:41:15 00:26:44:28 That’s right… they are
all in line with my goals…
00:26:45:16 00:26:49:12 … therefore my marriage, my life and
everything else are in line with my goals…
00:26:49:12 00:26:52:00 So you are not thinking
about not getting married…
00:26:52:04 00:26:59:27 No. One should get married
and not regret it two days later…
00:27:00:03 00:27:01:12 That’s right.
00:27:01:14 00:27:06:10 Azar, to me marriage is meaningless
because I’m studying now…
00:27:06:10 00:27:09:25 … later when I’ve
finished my studies…
00:27:10:25 00:27:12:14 … I may think about it because
I don’t want to be alone…
00:27:12:25 00:27:18:10 What if you want to work, in a
place which is different to Nodeh…
00:27:18:10 00:27:21:14 … or Sabzehvaar, do you think that…
you may have any problems with that?
00:27:21:14 00:27:24:06 Different… different how?
00:27:24:09 00:27:28:29 Like having a good job
in another city…
00:27:30:14 00:27:31:28 A good job?
00:27:31:28 00:27:33:01 Like my job…
00:27:33:15 00:27:36:19 Like you…
everything like yours?
00:27:36:19 00:27:37:15 Yep…
00:27:43:14 00:27:45:29 I don’t know…
I don’t know…
00:27:50:17 00:27:54:03 Your character… is very
interesting for me…
00:27:54:03 00:27:56:03 … part of it is because
I envy you…
00:27:56:03 00:28:00:18 … because you put your foot down
and said that you wanted to do this…
00:28:00:18 00:28:03:28 … that they said what they
wanted, but you objected…
00:28:03:28 00:28:10:15 … but I didn’t tell my family what I
wanted to do, what I wish to think…
00:28:10:15 00:28:16:07 … how I wanted to live my life, part of it
was because I knew they would disagree.
00:28:16:07 00:28:20:15 I said to myself that the only way is to
get married, 6 months after my marriage…
00:28:20:15 00:28:24:28 … I was suffering from severe
depression, I felt that…
00:28:24:28 00:28:29:08 … I had become dependent…
my character had changed…
00:28:29:08 00:28:33:17 … it was as if I couldn’t go anywhere with
Mehdi, I was never like that before.
00:28:33:17 00:28:38:25 I was more relaxed before getting
married, because I was not prepared…
00:28:38:25 00:28:42:07 … it’s very difficult for me…
I mean very difficult…
00:28:42:07 00:28:46:04 … that people would think
of me as a married woman…
00:28:47:06 00:28:52:03 Why? You are married and you
can do whatever you wish…
00:28:52:03 00:29:01:23 … you have your independence, you and
Mehdi have a very good relationship…
00:29:01:23 00:29:04:02 … is your problem only
the fact that…
00:29:04:02 00:29:06:28 You didn’t experience that
living apart from your family?
00:29:06:28 00:29:09:16 My main problem is the
way that people look at me.
00:29:09:16 00:29:12:14 With what they expect from me…
I have no problems with Mehdi.
00:29:12:14 00:29:14:29 … nothing serious, but
we are a married couple…
00:29:14:29 00:29:22:02 Now… you think your married
life doesn’t fulfil your needs…
00:29:22:02 00:29:26:11 You don’t have independence?
What’s it like?
00:29:26:16 00:29:30:08 I think that if I had experienced
that part of my life…
00:29:30:08 00:29:33:09 I might have never got married, I still
could have had a relationship with Mehdi…
00:29:33:09 00:29:36:01 … but not have married him…
00:29:36:01 00:29:40:01 … or maybe our relationship would be
over by now and I was still single and…
00:29:40:01 00:29:43:05 … after having experienced
that life I would then decide…
00:29:43:05 00:29:45:21 … whether to get married
or not or whatever…
00:30:07:18 00:30:11:20 I said… I always wanted
things in my life…
00:30:13:12 00:30:15:26 then I thought I
would get married…
00:30:17:26 00:30:22:10 … and I would have my
own life… that I would…
00:30:22:10 00:30:23:28 Well it is your life…
00:30:23:28 00:30:27:08 I would decide what
I wanted to do… or not…
00:30:27:08 00:30:30:12 … but when I got married…
it didn’t happen for me…
00:30:31:05 00:30:36:17 I mean… when I see my
friends… I don’t know…
00:30:36:17 00:30:37:28 the issue of… immigration…
00:30:41:19 00:30:42:28 … maybe,
00:30:44:04 00:30:45:21 … this is a
kind of immigration…
00:30:47:17 00:30:50:29 I now think that… I used to
think that if I lived in Tehran…
00:30:50:29 00:30:53:08 … if I lived in a bigger city it would
be a lot different for me, so…
00:30:54:15 00:30:58:11 I’m saying… even if one migrates
one will not obtain what they want…
00:30:59:03 00:31:00:15 No… what I want to say is that…
00:31:03:00 00:31:06:28 I got married to obtain
something else… but…
00:31:31:18 00:31:35:16 … I’m facing stupid obstacles…
00:31:38:27 00:31:44:24 Which have overshadowed
my goal… everything…
00:31:44:24 00:31:48:22 … my life has turned into something
else, it was defined in a different way…
00:31:49:22 00:31:53:20 … a bunch of definitions which
I didn’t believe in came to mind…
00:31:55:20 00:31:59:09 … even though I tried to fight
them but they came any way…
00:31:59:09 00:32:03:19 In reality there are no definitions, I don’t
know why you are thinking this way…
00:32:05:03 00:32:07:14 There are no definitions…
look Mehdi…
00:32:09:07 00:32:16:13 I know that you are unlike anyone
else that I have never seen.
00:32:17:24 00:32:23:06 You have tried your best for me to
have the life that I like to please me.
00:32:25:24 00:32:28:11 We can live apart…
I don’t know…
00:32:29:19 00:32:33:17 But Mehdi, this is not easy,
they way you put it…
00:32:33:17 00:32:38:23 … is as if… we couldn’t
resist not getting married…
00:32:38:23 00:32:41:25 … then we decide…
to live apart…
00:32:41:25 00:32:43:19 No… we can live in
2 separate houses…
00:32:44:12 00:32:50:06 What do you mean live in 2 separate
houses… no-one can accept this!
00:32:50:23 00:32:53:06 We can’t afford one
household…
00:32:54:12 00:32:56:03 - It just, not about living apart…
- We now have 15 million Tomans…
00:32:56:03 00:32:58:05 You can have 10…
I can have 5…
00:32:58:05 00:33:01:17 We can rent 2 small houses, we don’t
need to live in such a big house.
00:33:01:17 00:33:09:04 It’s just not living apart that
will make things all right…
00:33:09:28 00:33:11:15 … there are hundreds of issues…
00:33:44:19 00:33:47:04 I asked a question… and I
didn’t get any answers…
00:33:47:27 00:33:56:23 If you decide… to live
separately… what is this?
00:33:56:23 00:34:00:24 What are the obstacles? What
will the society do for you… ?
00:34:00:24 00:34:02:15 There are a lot of obstacles.
00:34:02:15 00:34:05:27 As a married woman… if
I decide to do such a thing,
00:34:05:27 00:34:09:15 You and other people
who are or are not here…
00:34:09:15 00:34:13:00 … the first thing that they will
say is what does this mean…
00:34:13:00 00:34:14:25 She had no problems so
why did she leave?
00:34:14:25 00:34:16:16 - Right… I will say that?
- Well that’s it.
00:34:16:16 00:34:18:03 I’m telling you now,
what do you mean?
00:34:18:03 00:34:19:05 Why do you want to
do such a thing… ?
00:34:19:05 00:34:22:18 Well I’d like to do this, because I
haven’t experienced it, I’d like to…
00:34:22:18 00:34:25:05 Do you think that one should
experience everything themselves?
00:34:25:05 00:34:27:19 Well… not everything, but
this is an important part…
00:34:27:19 00:34:31:26 I’d like to become an addict why?
Because I haven’t experienced it.
00:34:31:26 00:34:36:06 No, becoming an addict has got nothing
to do with wanting to be independent…
00:34:36:06 00:34:38:16 What if it has the same
consequences for you?
00:34:38:28 00:34:42:02 It won’t… I’ll try not to
create such consequences…
00:34:42:02 00:34:43:06 Why do you try?
00:34:43:06 00:34:47:15 Because I pursue something else,
a different life… I’d like…
00:34:47:15 00:34:54:18 To lead my own life… I don’t
like to be seen in a life in which…
00:34:54:18 00:34:58:15 … I need someone by my side to do
part of what is needed to be done…
00:34:58:23 00:35:00:04 What’s wrong with that?
00:35:00:04 00:35:02:10 It’s bad for me…
I don’t like it to be that way…
00:35:02:10 00:35:04:26 Why? People should live alone…
00:35:04:26 00:35:06:12 People should live alone…
00:35:06:12 00:35:11:12 If you live alone…
have your own life…
00:35:11:12 00:35:14:12 … have a house to yourself
or live with 2 roommates.
00:35:15:06 00:35:19:03 This doesn’t mean that you
want to seclude yourself …
00:35:19:03 00:35:21:07 …it means that you
will have your own life…
00:35:21:07 00:35:24:20 You don’t want to answer to anybody
about what time you’ll get home…
00:35:24:20 00:35:26:13 When you’ll leave…
what you are doing…
00:35:26:13 00:35:27:24 This gentleman is your roommate…
00:35:27:24 00:35:30:25 Have I asked you for anything? Have I ever
asked you why you’ve come home late?
00:35:30:25 00:35:33:23 Well no… it is just natural…
that you ask such a thing.
00:35:34:08 00:35:37:22 Well… we are not roommates…
we’re a married couple…
00:35:38:13 00:35:40:16 - Well it doesn’t make any difference…
- It does!
00:35:40:16 00:35:43:18 I’ve never expected anything
from you as a husband…
00:35:43:18 00:35:45:15 … I’ve alwaysm given you
the freedom…
00:35:45:15 00:35:46:26 … No, that’s
what you think…
00:35:46:26 00:35:49:00 … You think to yourself that
you have given me freedom…
00:35:49:00 00:35:51:07 … Just like I think that I’ve
give you freedom…
00:35:51:07 00:35:55:03 … but then you tell me that you don’t
have any privacy in this house…
00:35:55:03 00:35:57:08 Privacy and freedom
are not the same thing…
00:35:57:08 00:35:59:00 Any way privacy is
what you want…
00:35:59:00 00:36:03:10 If you are escaping, whatever you are
escaping from you’ll definitely lose…
00:36:03:10 00:36:06:05 … it doesn’t make any difference…
if you are escaping…
00:36:06:05 00:36:09:05 … and your escape leads
to marriage… you’ll lose…
00:36:09:05 00:36:12:28 … if your escape leads to you
living alone, you’ll definitely lose…
00:36:12:28 00:36:16:00 … whatever way you escape,
I believe that you have lost…
00:36:16:00 00:36:20:11 Ten years ago… when I used to
come home at 2 in the morning…
00:36:20:11 00:36:24:23 … once my sister said to me:
“It’s cool that you can stay out until 2. ”
00:36:24:23 00:36:30:09 Well… I couldn’t tell my sister…
what we did… when we were out,
00:36:30:09 00:36:31:24 … we walked…
went to the cinema.
00:36:31:24 00:36:37:05 I couldn’t tell her as she thought
going out was a big deal.
00:36:37:05 00:36:40:28 Well… what I could do was
to put myself in her shoes…
00:36:40:28 00:36:44:21 I would have had to
be home by 8!
00:37:01:19 00:37:03:08 Mina, when shall we go
looking for a place?
00:37:04:23 00:37:07:24 Place? What for?
00:37:12:08 00:37:13:23 To have 2 separate places…
00:37:50:11 00:37:52:05 Shiraz passengers,
please board…
00:38:29:02 00:38:31:02 - Hi.
- Hi. How are you?
00:38:33:17 00:38:34:22 - How are you?
- How are you?
00:38:34:22 00:38:36:21 The power is off!
00:38:36:22 00:38:38:05 How are you Dad?
00:38:41:10 00:38:43:11 - Did you come up the stairs? Hah?
- Yeah… the lift…
00:38:56:07 00:38:58:04 - What’s up?
- Nothing.
00:39:00:27 00:39:02:04 How’s Mehdi doing?
Is he all right?
00:39:02:04 00:39:03:25 He’s fine… how are you
Mum? Are you all right?
00:39:08:03 00:39:09:15 I wish you had brought
Mehdi along…
00:39:09:15 00:39:11:03 - Who… Mehdi?
- Yeah.
00:39:11:08 00:39:12:15 He’s at work…
00:39:22:23 00:39:25:15 When I see you or Namira
who have not yet married…
00:39:25:15 00:39:32:27 … then I ask myself why I married so
young and got myself involved in life…
00:39:32:27 00:39:36:20 … responsibility…
I don’t know… worries…
00:39:38:19 00:39:43:29 You have a lot of responsibilities?
I don’t know I feel as if you don’t.
00:39:43:29 00:39:47:09 Your life is very easy, I don’t know, I
feel as if your life hasn’t changed much…
00:39:47:27 00:39:50:20 … it’s true that responsibility
comes with marriage, I say… I…
00:39:50:20 00:39:54:19 … myself… you were always the
one who was against marriage…
00:39:54:19 00:39:57:08 … even though you were the
first to marry in our group but…
00:39:57:08 00:40:00:13 … in my opinion…
I still…
00:40:00:13 00:40:03:18 I was the only one who got
married… nobody else did…
00:40:04:14 00:40:07:00 - Well Maryam…
- Yeah Maryam has married too.
00:40:08:10 00:40:10:29 I don’t know about
anyone else but because…
00:40:10:29 00:40:16:04 I loved to study I was always
against getting married but …
00:40:16:04 00:40:21:13 … sometimes I feel there will come a
time where will not like to be alone…
00:41:51:19 00:41:54:02 What was it about?
00:42:00:00 00:42:04:28 Hmm… about…
Mom has guessed…
00:42:07:03 00:42:07:29 Well…
00:42:09:14 00:42:17:24 It’s about my life… I don’t know…
I regret having married…
00:42:18:27 00:42:23:18 So… you regret it…
what do you regret?
00:42:24:20 00:42:31:15 I don’t know, I don’t have anything…
I regret getting married early…
00:42:35:09 00:42:41:26 Getting married early is not a problem…
what is your problem with that…
00:42:41:26 00:42:43:22 … is it a bad marriage?
00:42:44:15 00:42:54:14 No… I feel as if I have lost a
part in my life… I shared my life…
00:42:54:22 00:42:59:23 I believe that you’re living
a perfect life…
00:43:00:22 00:43:02:12 Yeah… exactly…
00:43:02:12 00:43:06:21 If you decide to remarry
or not…
00:43:06:21 00:43:09:25 … You won’t have more options
than you already have…
00:43:11:00 00:43:16:16 … life will limit you… work
issues will limit you…
00:43:16:16 00:43:20:23 … life pressures will
restrict you… I think…
00:43:21:18 00:43:24:25 … Mehdi helps you more
than he restricts you…
00:43:24:25 00:43:28:09 No… I think that one
shouldn’t necessarily…
00:43:28:09 00:43:32:12 … have to be in a crucial situation
to decide, to live apart…
00:43:32:12 00:43:39:09 … because other people judge
their situation to be a crucial one…
00:43:40:18 00:43:42:25 What is it you don’t have
right now that.
00:43:42:25 00:43:46:04 You think you would be better
off with living alone…
00:43:46:04 00:43:50:16 … if you decide to go on a trip I don’t think
Mehdi would have a problem with that…
00:43:51:05 00:43:54:18 … if you decide to work…
00:43:55:17 00:43:57:10 You’re still free…
00:43:57:10 00:43:59:21 … You don’t have any problems
regarding your artistic work…
00:43:59:21 00:44:02:21 … you made the right decision…
you are successful…
00:44:02:21 00:44:06:13 … you have a good life, you do a
good job, considering your age…
00:44:06:13 00:44:10:10 What if I had decided to
live on my own back then?
00:44:11:29 00:44:16:08 If you had decided to live on your own then
that would have been another situation…
00:44:16:08 00:44:18:04 … we would have thought
about it…
00:44:18:04 00:44:21:24 I can’t tell you what we would have done
5 years ago if you had decided to do so…
00:44:21:24 00:44:23:18 … or what we would have said…
00:44:23:18 00:44:28:10 Back then, it wasn't like this,
for a girl your age…
00:44:28:10 00:44:34:01 to live on her own, in our
society, in our country...
00:44:34:01 00:44:36:25 … it is a little better now, but…
00:44:36:25 00:44:39:15 My situation was not different
to Mahmood’s but…
00:44:39:15 00:44:41:11 … Mahmood left and lived
his own life…
00:44:41:11 00:44:43:12 Well I’m saying the
same thing, a girl couldn’t…
00:44:43:12 00:44:46:01 Yeah… if you were a student…
we wouldn’t have stopped you…
00:44:46:01 00:44:47:26 No… I'm not
saying a student…
00:44:47:26 00:44:49:26 … I'm saying, I was a student
in Shiraz…
00:44:49:26 00:44:54:00 What if I had decided to go and work in
Tehran after I had finished my studies…
00:44:54:00 00:44:58:27 Well… if you had been employed
in an organization… or in an office…
00:44:58:27 00:45:01:00 What if I had my own job?
00:45:01:00 00:45:04:13 Well… you could have…
rented a place, to live…
00:45:04:13 00:45:10:12 … but it doesn’t mean that, you
could have continued living alone…
00:45:10:12 00:45:14:09 … to be on your own…
I don’t believe in it…
00:45:14:09 00:45:17:20 … living alone has not solved
any problems in our society…
00:45:18:20 00:45:21:19 … other than causing
more confusion.
00:45:21:19 00:45:26:02 You mean even if I decide to do so…
you won’t support me at all?
00:45:27:14 00:45:31:17 This is a strange question… you can
ask this when you are in the situation…
00:45:31:17 00:45:38:01 I can’t tell now… we won’t
give up on you as our child…
00:45:39:09 00:45:43:03 … we will stand behind you, but
we don’t agree with your decision…
00:45:43:12 00:45:47:22 … we won’t,
how can I put it?
00:46:18:14 00:46:22:02 Mehdi, I found our wedding
film when Kaveh was moving…
00:46:23:03 00:46:24:27 - Did you get it from him?
- It was among the fripperies…
00:46:27:11 00:46:28:28 Had he edited the film?
00:46:29:22 00:46:31:09 Edited what?
00:46:34:01 00:46:35:26 It’s good that you found it…
and it wasn’t lost…
00:46:38:19 00:46:40:12 - Mehdi…
- Hah?
00:46:44:07 00:46:49:21 I wanted to say no… by the
way, I’ve made up my mind…
00:46:50:07 00:46:51:03 Well…
00:46:51:12 00:46:55:16 What? I think we should
live apart…
00:46:55:19 00:46:56:15 So…
00:46:57:01 00:46:58:19 I don’t have any money…
00:46:59:05 00:47:00:09 You don’t?
00:47:04:23 00:47:06:19 I’ve decided to stay in a
boarding-house for a while…
00:47:08:03 00:47:09:28 - A boarding-house?
- Hmm…
00:47:11:00 00:47:12:06 With Azar?
00:47:14:19 00:47:18:02 What has it got to do with Azar?
What will you do then?
00:47:18:24 00:47:19:27 I’ll stay here…
00:47:20:27 00:47:22:10 You’ll be back again…
00:47:22:15 00:47:24:06 How do you know that I will?
00:47:24:16 00:47:30:12 You will not endure it… you have to
come to terms with 6 different opinions…
00:47:30:12 00:47:34:08 Well I have never experienced
such a thing… I intend to do that…
00:47:34:08 00:47:37:23 I will either come to terms with
it or not… I’m certain that I will…
00:47:38:08 00:47:39:22 I’m sure that you won’t…
00:47:39:29 00:47:44:00 Over there… I will
define my relationship…
00:47:44:00 00:47:47:14 I will get friendly with
whomever I like… or not…
00:47:49:01 00:47:54:13 Our relationship is defined, we are a married
couple, we live under the same roof…
00:47:56:06 00:47:56:27 Go…
00:47:58:09 00:48:00:04 Will you be able to handle
what the others will say?
00:48:00:11 00:48:01:15 Who do you mean?
00:48:01:22 00:48:04:18 The ones who ask
why we did it.
00:48:06:25 00:48:09:08 You are getting separated,
what should I answer them…
00:48:09:08 00:48:10:18 … to whom
do I want to answer…
00:48:10:18 00:48:12:20 You were the one who said
we should get 2 different places…
00:48:13:06 00:48:15:20 I said it because you wanted
to live independently… I said it…
00:48:15:20 00:48:17:10 this is really stupid…
00:48:17:15 00:48:18:23 What is stupid?
00:48:19:19 00:48:20:26 Is very stupid…
00:48:20:26 00:48:24:21 You are the one, who keeps telling me
that we should look for a place…
00:48:24:21 00:48:26:18 Well you are the one who said that
you wanted to be independent…
00:48:26:18 00:48:29:04 I told you to go and live someplace
else because you wanted to…
00:48:29:04 00:48:30:15 So why do say it is stupid?
00:48:30:15 00:48:33:02 Why should I answer them, you are the
one who wants to be independent…
00:48:33:02 00:48:39:06 Well I thought since you proposed that we should
do this you will be the one to answer them.
00:48:39:06 00:48:42:03 I can’t answer them since I don’t
dare, I haven’t until now…
00:48:42:03 00:48:45:16 What’s it got to do with it?
What you are saying is irrational…
00:48:45:16 00:48:48:14 - Then you said that you will answer them…
- It’s very illogical…
00:48:48:28 00:48:51:15 Now that we are going to
do this it is illogical?
00:48:54:21 00:48:55:26 Whatever…
00:48:56:02 00:49:00:26 If I dare tell them that I want
to live in a boarding-house or…
00:49:00:26 00:49:05:00 … to live apart I wouldn’t have
got married in the first place!
00:49:06:08 00:49:10:03 Well now… now you have reached
a point where you can say it…
00:49:10:14 00:49:11:21 I haven’t…
00:49:14:27 00:49:19:11 You want to be independent…
then go and see what will happen…
00:49:19:11 00:49:20:22 … once you are independent…
00:49:23:22 00:49:25:19 I said I wanted to
experience it…
00:49:25:19 00:49:27:26 Then go… and see
what happens!
00:49:28:09 00:49:31:01 I might regret it… I will return
and we will live together…
00:49:33:09 00:49:35:10 No… I won’t accept
you if you return.
00:49:36:27 00:49:38:10 I won’t accept
you if you return.
00:49:38:17 00:49:39:23 What will
you not accept?
00:49:39:23 00:49:40:28 For you to come back…
00:49:41:04 00:49:44:09 For me to return? What do
you mean you won’t accept?
00:49:44:09 00:49:45:27 You’ll go for good.
00:49:46:17 00:49:48:25 You’re saying that you don’t
have any problems if I leave…
00:49:48:25 00:49:53:07 No… I’ve come to the conclusion
that if you return I can’t accept…
00:50:10:24 00:50:11:20 Cool
00:50:32:04 00:50:34:27 No we had to put coins…
00:50:35:02 00:50:37:12 Shall we go for a ride?
00:50:37:12 00:50:40:26 I can’t eat anymore… I’m so
bored with the cotton candy…
00:50:40:26 00:50:42:09 Is this A?
00:50:42:09 00:50:45:05 You drove us up the wall because
you kept asking for cotton candy…
00:50:53:19 00:50:55:15 This is really scary…
00:51:00:08 00:51:02:16 37, 36 and 40
00:51:08:04 00:51:09:00 40…
00:51:09:09 00:51:10:10 Me… thank you
00:51:13:01 00:51:14:15 37 is for me…
thank you…